Guard Your Heart
"You are the key"
- Why guard your heart ?
(A) When you think of giving someone your heart or giving your heart over to someone elce , it is
often because your desire is to offer or be with them in a way that they know you are
offering all you have. It is a way of saying, "I care so much that I trust you with this", my
heart. What someone that will give all they have does not understand is that when you
given your all, it leaves you nonthing! The emotional strain of giving someone your all is
that in order to save face or to save your own sole is to be controls by that person until such
time you have the knowledge or strenth to trust someone that can help you recover from
someone elce controling you.
It is so easy for us or someone elce to till you not to give or guard your heart, but to find love
or intamency with another is the highest form of loving another, to give them your all.
The problem is they may not so easily give it back to you the way you gave it to them.
Your heart is the emotional seat of all of your decisions. Based on your overall experiences,
you measure, then make a decision "I want to give this person my all because".
What each person learns is the ability to care, love, think or show compassion towards
others is based on what is in their heart.
Someone that likes how you so purely show or love them can and most often will try to take
control of you by taking control of your heart or emotions. When someone steals, or take
control of your feelings, they understand they now control how you feel about others and your
ability to make clear cut decisions. The decision to give someone your all after they
"knowingly" seek to influnce you by certain behaviors; "the way they touch certain private
places"; "the way they seek to turn you away from certain life long relationships"; or
"to give your certain information" with the understanding I will control you "if I can just
get this emomtion" in your heart. It is hard to believe a person you love
or gave your heart to will try to make you hate the very people that have been caring for you
since you have been in the earth; your parents. Sometime others give you "emotional
experiences" now with the understanding they will control you later.
When you are old enough you will better understand what it means to give over your heart. When someone cares or loves you they will not seek to control, but to direct or to do the best
towards you, that it will lead you to a better life in the future.
- Where is you heart ?
(A) Your heart, sometimes called your soul is what God gave every man, woman and
child so that they will know good and bad. Only human being have a heart;
that is where we learn to care, love and have compassion toward others.
Your heart is located in your body, and not your head or brain. Your brain
thinks, but your heart shows feelings (compassion) toward others. With a clean or
good heart you could think a person is bad, but treat them good from your heart.
An un-clean or poor heart see's no good in most everyone.
- When should you guard your heart ?
(A) When should you guard or resist others that seek to influence your heart;
at all times or when you feel something is wrong or does not feel right.
Experiences that seek to effect your feeling;, attempt to influence your heart.
Most often the the influence deal with your skin or flesh. Flesh is any area dealing
with touch. Kissing, rubbing, rousing the flesh influences the heart. Most often things
done in secret (not wanting others to know what they are doing to you). Anything
that is done in secret or without permission of your parents or adults deals with your
heart.
You should talk to your parents or an adult if what someone is doing does not feeling
right. To guarding your heart is to not allow anything done in the dark; making you
feel bad, anger, not caring what other think or feel, getting you to do things without
permission of parents or adults. When someone is doing (continuous) things to make
you feel dirty, bad, to hate, disrespect others or authority is not good good for the heart.
Talk to your parent or another adult about what or why you feel the way you do helps
you understand issues of the heart. Adults should help you feel better about what you
are feeling.
- How do I guard my heart ?
(A) When someone is asking you to do something, or say things that you know are wrong,
or do not feel right (Your Heart) is telling you something is wrong. As you learn to guard
your heart, you develop a conciousness of right or wrong. Most people that do wrong know
they are doing wrong, but their heart has been hardened by life experiences. I learn to guard
my heart by believing in doing what is right, even when others tell me it is wrong.
Right is Right and Wrong is Wrong and nonthing will change that, but what I allow in my
heart will determine my life circomstances.
You are learning to trust your heart or feelings and how to say "No", to wrong. You should be able to talk to your parents or an adult that you trust if you are under
pressured to do something you are not sure about. Guarding your heart means to do right
and not wrong and to follow instructions of your parents or those that have rule over you.
- What does guarding your heart do or mean ?
(A) To guarding your heart means to protect yourself from others that do not live for or
think to guard or do good for your past, present or future. When you have a pure
or good heart you want what is best for others no matter the relationship to you.
Parents or adults should want what is good or best for you and all children.
Your family most often is the first line of trust or defense. Family serves as the source of
caring and genuine love for you.
Family was established by God as a way to care for humanity, as a child grows they learn
how to make decision that are good based on choices. This is why family is so important, I can tell the tree by it's fruit. Make the tree good or most likely it is bad.
Good or Godly behavior is a learned behavior. Every man, woman, child must believe
everyone has the ability to do good towards each other, even if they are doing wrong.
My heart must be good or loving towards other in order to have something to guard.
When everyone lives and believes it is right to do good, and to treat others right it is called humanity.
When others seek to influence you for their own good it is considered selfish or
inhuman or socially unacceptable. My writing this blogg is considered good, unless
I am writing it to control or influence you to do what I want or desire your to do or believe.
Usually this poor behavior results in a heart that has become unclean. An unclean heart
or a person that has bad, evil thoughts, intentions towards you can make your heart
unclean as well. To guard your heart meams to know right from wrong or
to know to do good and not bad. To guard your heart also mean not trying to control
others for you personal pleasure.
To desire to do wrong or bad is to have a unclean spirit or an unclean heart. To have a
heart that desire to walk in wrong is to walk in darkness. Darkness means you have
become confused about what is right and wrong; good or evil and you live in darkness
(not aware of what is right). A person that allows these feeling or emotions in his heart
is not guarding his heart. This behavior also most often results in poor decision making,
bad or poor behaviors towards family, specificly parents. An unguarded hearts
will also lead to behaviors that result anti-social behaviors, selfash acts that do not
consider others feeling or well being. A parent or adult that will abuse or use their own
child for their own pleasure has an unclean or unguarded heart.
Poor behaviors that takes place in social or community places; school, church, work or are disrespectful towards authority are also a result of unguarded hearts. Not willing to
follow instructions or to live a human life before others is a result of a person that has learned to live with an unguarded or unclean heart.
